Hello My Dalia’s

I haven’t written in a while and my bestie reminded me the core reasons behind why I wanted to started Blue Dalia and above fashion and beauty it was an outlet for me to share with you my silliness and thoughts that can sometimes be the dumbest S*** and sometimes meaningful.I have been going through some-things lately and since we are still at first base of this virtual relationship I won’t open up until we hit a home run!

I am prepping up for a work thing this week witch brings me to bitch-fest session number one.I still don’t get the hypocrisy if women , here we are in this day and age , complaining about rights and standing together as one and this and that , but why the f*** is there so much hate between women , I mean we coined the word frenemies , so what does that mean ?

Be friends with your enemy ? WHAT THE FUCK is that all about ? well my little Dalia’s if a lesson must be learned, and it’s an ugly one, friendship between women is not an easy task.After long convo’s with my all time BFF  I realised that there is so much hate that can exist amongst women over the stupidest shit !

This whole concept of frenemies baffles me but hey i witness it day in and day out , it’s the girl at work that comes and tells you “hey i have to tell you something…so and so just told me something and it can never get otu so keep it to yourself.” What ? I know who I am NEVER confiding in . Or it’s the girl that’s part of your circle and as soon as one of them leaves there is some comment thrown on the atrocious outfit ! Or it’s your “friend ” who knows you are on your way to losing your last few pounds but brings you a tray of freshly baked cookies with a note that says “loved you more when you were chubby bubbly”

I don’t care for this and I prefer being surrounded by a handful of loving friends that will nod if I’m plumpier or that will call me out on  the widening effect of horizontal stripes.

To all the other Dalia’s they are wilted flowers in my book.

XOXO